It can be hard and feel like you’re not getting anythanks as a stepparent. When they move in with a family, things can get complicated, and it takes time to build trust and love. Many stepparents stay committed to their job and work hard to build strong relationships with their stepchildren, even though they face many problems, misunderstandings, and even rejection.
The time I spent with a stepparent was, to say the least, difficult. I felt hurt when my dad married his new wife because he had cheated on my mum with her. As a teen, I stayed away from her, which made it hard for her to connect with me.
But when I went to college, everything changed. My stepmother brought me a careful care package with snacks and other things I needed before I left for the airport. My dad drove me there. I saw tears in her eyes when she hugged me.
We became close and trusted each other over time, making our own customs. She was there for me, was gentle, and showed me that family is about love, work, and second chances. Because of that, she became like a second mom to me. Her love and acceptance of me no matter what taught me that love and care are more important than genes when it comes to being a parent.
